I'm easily distracted. I require absolute silence to read without moving my lips or skipping ahead to find out what actually DID happen to Dick & Jane. The backdrop of conversations equals one auditory blur. The sudden convergence of sounds means I hear nothing discernable.
In untimely events this occurs mid-conversation, and I am left with three options:
Option 1: playing along as if I haven’t tuned out the last 4 sentences AND forgotten the topic.
Option 2: interrupting to say something like, “Uh, I’m sorry….What were you saying?”
Option 3: waiting for the echo.
Waiting for the echo: Action taken by a distracted (though good looking) individual to decipher a previously-given statement. Consists of mentally repeating said statement multiple times until clarity of its content is reached. Requires absolute concentration and persistence. Must be done inconspicuously. Caution: May cause wrinkley forehead.
It is a difficult balance. The decision to use one option over the other is entirely dependent on the circumstances.
Option 1 is best when the conversation partner is (a) not very bright, so topics are often simple and easy to follow, (b) not very bright, so the fact that I have zoned out is never noticed, or (c) a blabbermouth who is not concerned with whether I contribute or not.
Option 2 is best when (a) the conversation partner knows I am an easily distracted but likes me anyway, or (b) it is likely that I will be quizzed or asked a follow-up question, and efforts at “faking it” will be transparent.
Option 3 is best when time or distance create the opportunity to figure out what has been said. At this point, waiting for the echo can be quite helpful.
Waiting for the echo in action: Last week I stopped by for a quick visit to a friend at work. As I was leaving, amid the din of office noise, voices and foot traffic, I heard the following: “Blah blahty blahty blah” from her cube.
“Blah blahty blahty blah???” I thought to myself.
"Blah blahty blahty blah…” I replayed as I walked farther way.
“Blah blahty blahty blah.” and I finally figured it out.
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“Come visit any time” she said.
Thank you, my friend, I will! And thank you too echo!
